Help!!!

It's always difficult trying to get someone out of a tough situation.  You try and try and then you try again with your very best, and things still stay the same or at least they seem that way.

The first thing is they have to realize the problem and then they must want to change. If they do not want to change, then for you it'll be as "leading a horse to the water". You can get the horse there but you can't make them drink. 

BUT you can pray for them :) - this is the easy part!